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What to do when the person you love calls the cops on you?
My boyfriend and I were staying together for 2 weeks. It all started when father died. He said he would not be alone in the house because he had it.To start thinking about making a long story short, on Friday, after my yoga class, I went home to take a shower and get some clothes, and head back home. I arrived at 12:30 am and that's what caused the pain between us. She began to complain that is their home and I respect their desire that he does not want me out so late or go home to late.I I screwed up because I think he was trying to be my father and boyfriend and we got into a big argument that led him kicked out. I refused to go because it was too late to travel. After a while, decided to call the police. I thought it was a joke until they arrived, he let them in, and I said, okay, I had to go. What should I do with this situation? I love him, but crossed a serious line that night. Please help.
If I had said before this incident he does not like you come late or coming late, then had it all the right to be angry that dishonored his request. He, like any other person who pays the rent, has every right to make rules regarding your house. Also has the right to request that you do not stay up late, but if he does, he must also explain why. This avoids confusion for everyone. YOU could have apologized by the last arrival and said it was okay, I promise not to do it without good reason, and probably all would have cooled. But, you chose to get defensive, what makes it appear that he did not mind his feelings. He knows that he is her father – tell him, or any other person who actually got up anger. Admittedly, this is a very childish reaction – I do not like that too. Then, like a stubborn donkey, who again refused to comply with his request to leave – which just added fuel to the fire. In these circumstances, no listening, no one cares, then insisting on staying in his face. What were your options? You stay and This meet his tantrum? Hits? Or – as you have been eliminated, he wondered. I would have done exactly the same, sorry to disappoint you. WHAT "line would be" It did cross – which was presented bother too late? It would not have had reason to call anyone if had done the right thing and left. It was wrong to refuse to go – there would consistently managed to ensure that night anyway. They were both too angry. LOVE RESPECT means. Sure does not look as if you respect – in fact, you do not take any responsibility their part in this at all. His only fault was not enjoying his evening arrival. He had the right to tell him to go. What to do in this situation is profusely apologized for his rude behavior and apologize more. If you agree, then go ahead and forget about it.
Sell Bob’s House, Episode 1